When doing work that matters, in risking something of yourself, a voice stirs inside of you. Some call it the Lizard Brain, some call it the resistance, and there are many other things you can call it.
You can call it the enemy. It comes at you with teeth flashing, ready to attack you. What do you at times like that? You feel that you must resist it. You feel like you must fight it in order to address it, in order to make it go away.
But this is its plan all along.
Start a venture, the beast comes to attack you. “This cannot be done. You will fail and lose everything.”
Express your interest in someone you like. “This person will reject you. You will never get her/him/the role you want.” Also the beast.
Publish something, create something, and put it out there. “No one will want this. You’re wasting your time. Stop dreaming.”
The beast will come and attack you, and want to fight you. It will make you believe that the only way to counter its voice, is to fight it.
Not so. Fighting it is what it wants. When you even touch this beast, its teeth bite into you and makes you rabid. You believe you’re fighting this beast, but actually you’re letting it control you.
Instead, stop fighting the beast. You will at first believe that if you stop fighting it, it will win. It will own you. But that is already happening right now.
Stop fighting it. You will notice that it will have nothing to attack then. It will pass right through you. You will see that you are much bigger than it. You will see that the beast was toothless all along. You will then be able to move on.